Ralph Edward Lovejoy II

Ralph Edward Lovejoy II, born August 11, 1953, in Hamlin, West Virginia, passed away suddenly on Sunday, September 15, 2024, at the age of 71 of unknown causes. Ralph was surrounded by his loving family members when he passed.

Ralph was preceded in death by his mother, Dorothy Ann Lovejoy; father, Ralph Edward ("Tom") Lovejoy; and brother-in-law, John A. Midkiff. He is survived by his two loving daughters, Katherine Ann Lovejoy and Lynn Lovejoy Krueger-Andes; son-in law, Matt Krueger-Andes; beloved granddaughters, Benner and Madelyn (and his first grandson expected in October); sister and best friend, Beth Ann Midkiff; nephews and niece, John B. Midkiff, Heather McCall, and Lucas McCall; aunt, Mary Lou Jones; sisters, Tessa Cooper (Jeff) and LeeAnn Bills (Noah); and beloved cousins who he adored.

Ralph was a proud West Virginian. He went to Marshall University, where he graduated summa cum laude with a Bachelor of Business Administration, Accounting and Finance, and obtained his J.D. from West Virginia University School of Law. He had a long successful career in investment banking and finance that began in Pittsburgh after graduating law school and passing the CPA exam. His career success eventually brought him to Charlotte, North Carolina, where he built a beautiful family and continued in his professional endeavors.

An adoring father, Ralph loved nothing more than his daughters and made time each day to be there for them and make them smile and laugh. From being the "Cheer Dad" at Lynn's cheer competitions to being the assistant coach for Katie's tennis team, he loved celebrating and supporting his girls. Ralph cherished quality time with each of his daughters, taking Katie to every horseback riding competition, often driving her up early, and missing every PGA U.S. Open (despite absolutely loving golf) to drive Lynn to camp every summer. As they "flew the nest," he wrote letters of advice to guide them and was there every day they needed him, proudly wearing their Hopkins and UGA gear everywhere he went. With two full-grown daughters and grandbabies, he stayed connected each day through thoughtful calls and messages, remarkably, sending them a text every single morning with a special Dad Joke (or a meaningful message on Sundays) and video messages to his granddaughters for their birthdays.

He never met a stranger and was a friend to many. Ralph will be remembered for his infectious smile, his quick wit, and his never ending supply of puns. He was an avid writer, having completed five manuscripts, which his daughters intend to bring to the world. He loved to play and watch golf and was a devoted football (Brady!) fan with his nephews and son-in-law.

Funeral information and arrangements will be announced in the near future. In lieu of flowers, we would request that people donate blood, platelets, or monetary gifts to the American Red Cross. This mission was incredibly important to Ralph and he viewed it as a "gift of life." Ralph donated blood every 58 days, and was disappointed after his 70th birthday when he could no longer do "doubles" or platelets. Ralph was so proud to receive his 13-gallon pin the week he passed away, and pinned it to his hat to wear every day. The note with his pin read, "Congratulations, Ralph! It's our honor to award you this milestone pin. Your 104 lifetime donations have made a true difference in the lives of others. We're proud to celebrate this achievement with you." In Ralph's final message to his family, he told us "Always remember, what we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others can live on through eternity."